
Match Day
Daily habits encourage health (Vitality) and goal consistency (Perseverance).
Being ready promotes confidence (Vitality) and dedication (Perseverance).
Reflecting on performance builds insight (Inquiry) and accountability (Perseverance).
TABLE OF CONTENTs - Match Day
REFLECT
Self-Reflection Questions
EXPLORE
Core Principles and Concepts
EXAMINE - Routines
Supporting Principles and Concepts
EXAMINE - Readiness
Supporting Principles and Concepts
EXAMINE - Reflection
Supporting Principles and Concepts
EMPOWER
Discussing and Considering New Perspectives and Ideas
ENGAGE
Engaging New Ideas and Applying Them in Daily Life
REFLECT
Self-reflection is a powerful tool to increase self-awareness, prepare mentally and emotionally to engage new ideas, and connect this lesson to principles in your own life!
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As you begin to think about your own habits and rituals on important days, ask yourself the following questions.
How do I prepare myself physically, mentally, and emotionally on match days?
What routines help me stay calm and focused before competition begins?
How do I respond when I am distracted, stressed, or over-emotional during competition?
EXPLORE
Exploration sparks curiosity and builds emotional and practical connections to new ideas!
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Match day is when all the preparation, practice, and hard work come together. For student-athletes, these days are filled with excitement, nerves, and focus. How you approach match day often determines not only how you perform but how you handle the pressure, enjoy the experience, and learn from the competition.
One of the best ways to prepare for match day is through solid routines. Having a routine helps calm your mind and body by giving you a familiar process to follow. This might include when you wake up, what you eat, how you warm up, and how you mentally prepare before competition. When your routine becomes consistent, it removes some of the uncertainty and allows you to enter competition feeling steady and prepared.
Routines also help with managing nerves. Feeling nervous before a match is normal and even healthy, as it shows that you care. However, if nerves take over, they can affect your focus and performance. Following your routine allows you to stay grounded, giving you confidence that you have prepared and are ready to compete at your best.
Physical and mental readiness are both important on match day. Physically, this means being properly fueled, hydrated, rested, and warmed up. Mentally, it means focusing on the task at hand rather than getting distracted by outside thoughts or results you cannot control. Staying present in each moment of the game allows you to make better decisions and adjust as the competition unfolds.
Confidence on match day often comes from preparation. When you know you have worked hard in practice, studied your game, and taken care of your body, you step into competition with a strong foundation. Confidence does not mean you expect perfection. It means you trust your preparation and believe you are ready to meet the challenges of the day.
After competition, reflection becomes an important part of growth. Win or lose, taking time to review your performance helps you learn and improve. Ask yourself what went well, where you struggled, and what adjustments you can make moving forward. Honest reflection allows you to turn each match into a learning experience that prepares you even better for the next one.
Reflection is not only about performance but also about preparation. Consider whether your routine supported your readiness, if your focus was where it needed to be, and whether you managed your nerves effectively. These questions help you fine-tune your match day approach so you can continue improving both mentally and physically.
It is important to separate your identity from your results. A win does not define you as a person, and a loss does not take away your value. Viewing each match as part of a larger journey allows you to enjoy the process of competition without being consumed by the outcome.
Support from teammates, coaches, and family members can also help you navigate match day. Encouragement, perspective, and shared experiences make the ups and downs of competition easier to handle. Leaning on your support system reminds you that you are not in this alone.
In the end, match day is a chance to showcase your preparation, effort, and growth. By developing strong routines, maintaining physical and mental readiness, and committing to reflection after each competition, you build habits that support long-term success. These habits will serve you well throughout your athletic career and beyond.
EXAMINE - ROUTINES
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Match day success starts with your routines. The way you prepare your body and mind throughout the day helps you stay calm and ready to compete.
A consistent pre-match routine reduces anxiety. Familiar actions before competition help you settle into focus and avoid feeling rushed.
Start your day with a balanced meal and proper hydration. Fueling your body early allows your energy levels to stay steady throughout competition.
Review your schedule the night before. Knowing what time you need to arrive, warm up, and compete allows you to plan your day with confidence.
Build in extra time to avoid feeling rushed. Arriving early gives you space to adjust to unexpected delays or last-minute changes.
Review any scouting reports, strategies, or opponent notes calmly. Focus on key reminders instead of overwhelming yourself with too much information.
Create a pre-game checklist for equipment, gear, or settings. Checking everything reduces distractions once the competition starts.
Include light physical warm-ups or stretches before competition. Activating your body helps you stay loose and sharp.
Use quiet time to mentally review your goals. Visualizing success helps you step into competition with confidence.
Stay off social media or unnecessary distractions before matches. Protecting your focus preserves your mental energy for the game ahead.
Keep your routine consistent for both home and away competitions. Familiar habits help you feel prepared in any setting.
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EXAMINE - READINESS
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Your body and mind must work together to perform your best. Preparing both allows you to handle competition with focus, energy, and confidence.
Physical readiness starts with rest. A full night of sleep allows your body and brain to function at full capacity on match day.
Fuel your body with steady nutrition leading up to competition. Balanced meals and snacks help you maintain steady energy during intense moments.
Hydration supports reaction time and focus. Dehydration slows your mind and body, even before you feel thirsty.
Practice breathing exercises to calm nerves. Deep, slow breaths help you control anxiety and keep your mind steady.
Accept that nerves may appear before competition. Feeling nervous shows you care, but managing that energy keeps you composed.
Use positive self-talk to build confidence. Replace doubtful thoughts with reminders of your preparation, effort, and skills.
Avoid overthinking past mistakes during warm-ups. Focus on the present moment and trust the preparation you have done.
Keep your pre-match conversations focused and supportive. Positive communication with teammates builds calm and confidence across the group.
Mentally rehearse your first few moments of competition. Visualizing smooth starts helps you settle into rhythm quickly.
Trust your preparation. You have already done the work leading up to this moment. Focus on executing one play, one round, or one point at a time.
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EXAMINE - REFLECTION
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Every match is a learning opportunity. Honest reflection helps you grow from both success and struggle, building steady improvement over time.
After competition, take time to cool down emotionally before assessing performance. Clear reflection happens when emotions settle.
Focus on both strengths and weaknesses. Identifying what went well is just as important as seeing where improvement is needed.
Avoid harsh self-criticism. Honest reflection focuses on solutions, not blame or shame.
Use match reviews or VODs to analyze decision-making and positioning. Watching your play provides valuable insights beyond what you noticed during the match.
Write down one or two specific areas to improve for the next match. Focused goals make practice sessions more productive.
Discuss performance with coaches or teammates. Getting feedback provides new perspectives and helps you avoid blind spots.
Celebrate small progress markers, not just wins. Growth happens through consistent improvement, not overnight perfection.
Reflect on mental focus during the match. Consider how you handled pressure, communication, and emotional control.
Set short-term and long-term learning goals after each competition. Reflection leads to adjustments that carry into future preparation.
Stay emotionally balanced after wins and losses. Neither success nor failure defines you. Each match builds the next step forward.
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ENGAGE
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Now that you have reviewed all of the lesson content, it’s time to see how new perspectives work in your daily life!
Either in a journal or notebook of your own choosing, or on a document provided to you, write short but thoughtful responses to the following questions. Your responses will not be collected or graded. Be open and honest with yourself as you consider each of the questions.
Then find 1 Program Director, Coach, Assistant Coach, Team Manager, or Team Captain. Find a time to speak with them briefly, but with minimal distractions. Ask them about their perspectives and ideas based on the following questions. Write down responses to the best of your ability!
You’ll be asked to participate in a short discussion about what you have learned, either individually or in a group, with a REBOOT Coach. The REBOOT Coach will discuss the following questions with you, and discuss the impact of these concepts in your daily life.
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ASK YOURSELF :
[Routines]
What does your typical match day routine look like, from the time you wake up to the moment competition begins? How do those habits help or hurt your performance?
[Readiness]
How do you mentally and physically prepare yourself when it’s time to compete? What helps you feel locked in and ready to perform at your best?
[Reflection]
After a match or competition, how do you review your performance? What do you typically learn from your wins or losses that helps you grow?
ASK OTHERS :
[Routines]
What pre-competition routines do you recommend or encourage for athletes to stay focused, calm, and consistent?
[Readiness]
How do you assess whether a player is truly “ready” for competition, mentally, emotionally, and physically?
[Reflection]
What’s your process for reviewing performance after a match, and how do you help students learn from both success and failure?

Match Day
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